Hello,

I'm 35, based in Berlin, professionally and financially stable, and approaching my wish to become a mother in a thoughtful and responsible way.

I have been a wheelchair user for six years, live independently, work full-time, and maintain an active and well-organised life. My disability does not define my ambitions, including becoming a parent.

I am open to two paths:

• a clear donor arrangement with openness and transparency, or
• a structured co-parenting relationship if our values, expectations, and long-term vision align.

I do not necessarily believe co-parenting must mean a strict 50/50 split. I am prepared to take on most day-to-day responsibilities, but I am looking for a reliable, emotionally mature man who genuinely values fatherhood and the wellbeing of a child.

What matters most to me:

• openness and honest communication
• legal and practical transparency
• mutual respect and trust
• long-term stability for the child
• flexibility and realism around family life

I am not looking for a romantic relationship, but for a thoughtful, adult solution centred on creating the best possible environment for a future child.

My preferred language is English. I have a mixed African background.

To keep things realistic logistically, I currently prefer men under 45 who are based in Berlin or nearby. For the right person, I would also be open to another European country, especially in the context of a genuine co-parenting project.

My primary intention at the moment is donor conception, but I remain open to discussing co-parenting if expectations and values truly align.

If this resonates with you, I would be happy to connect.